How To Be The Perfect Wedding Guest

How To Be The Perfect Wedding Guest

Attending a wedding is a joyous occasion that allows us to celebrate the love and commitment between two people. Being invited to share such an intimate moment is an honour, and as a wedding guest, you play a crucial role in making the day flow perfectly for the couple.

Being the perfect wedding guest is more than just turning up and looking flawless; it is also about showing respect, love and consideration for the couple on their special day. Traditional wedding guest etiquette involves a range of responsibilities from the moment the couple announces their engagement.

There are things you can do to ensure that at the next wedding you attend, you will be nothing but a reliable and perfect wedding guest. The last thing you want to do is add stress to the bride or groom.

Where Should You Start?

RSVP Promptly

The invitation is your first point of contact with the couple and is essential to responding. They are usually distributed around 6–8 weeks before the event, but some can be months, like if they are having a destination wedding.

Whether a traditional mailed invitation or a more modern online RSVP, ensure you respond before the specific deadline. Regardless of whether you can attend, you need to ensure you’re letting them know so they can plan accordingly.

There is a lot that goes into weddings, such as the seating arrangements, headcount for caterers and much more. The couple also has deadlines to meet, so it’s only a matter of respect and basic etiquette to RSVP on time.

Fill Out the RSVP Card Accurately

It is important when filling out the card that you read it carefully and follow the instructions when responding to an invitation. This will usually involve you circling whether you will or will not be attending. Some couples are generous enough to allow you to bring a plus one; you will usually disclose that on the RSVP.

If, by chance, you are unable to attend, it is polite to extend a warm and informal note explaining that you cannot attend and that you wish them all the best.

Prepare a Wedding Gift

Another golden rule when it comes to being the perfect wedding guest is to be encouraged to pursue and purchase off a couple’s wedding registry. If the couple has gone through the process of requesting specific products, gift cards, or experiences, then there’s a chance they will appreciate them more than something they’ve not asked for.

To avoid panicking while trying to find a gift for the couple, it’s best to purchase something from the registry as soon as it goes live.

Dress Appropriately

Pay close attention to the dress code mentioned in the invitation; it could be a themed wedding or a wish for all guests to wear black and it should go without saying that all female guests refrain from wearing head-to-toe white unless instructed otherwise. Dressing appropriately is a sign of respect for the couple.

When in doubt, reach out to the couple or a wedding party member for guidance. If the instructions are still unclear, just go for a fashionable corset dress; that way, you are being respectful while feeling fabulous.

Arrive Early On the Day

The saying “fashionably late” does not apply to your friends or family’s wedding day. To avoid being that guest who ruins the ceremony, make a point to arrive an hour before the ceremony starts.

This way, you can appreciate the beautiful settings, get a drink and mingle with all the other guests. This way, you can relax and do your part in being the perfect wedding guest.

Respect Religious and Cultural Norms

Weddings often incorporate specific religious or cultural customs. Be respectful and attentive during these ceremonies, even if they are unfamiliar to you. If you have any questions or concerns, discreetly ask someone who is knowledgeable or do research in your own time about the customs and ensure you’re a perfectly respectable guest.

Engage Actively, but Respect Boundaries 

While it’s essential to have a good time and celebrate the happy newlyweds, ensure you don’t get carried away and focus on the fact that the couple is having a good time. Shutting down any behaviour that draws attention away from the celebrations and keeps the festivities going in full swing.

Thank Your Hosts 

Before leaving the celebrations, take a moment to thank the hosts, whether it’s the couple themselves or their parents. Express your gratitude for inviting you to share in their special day.


At the end of the day, being the perfect wedding guest involves respectful and gracious manners. The newlyweds have spent most of their lives planning and preparing for this one special day and the least you can do is adhere to simple dress codes, RSVP, and celebrate their love and enjoy the fruits of their labour.

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